Saturday was Tyler’s last soccer game of the season.
And while that was a celebratory event in and of itself
it was then magnified by the presence of Mimi and Pop pop coming to watch Tyler play.
A few weeks ago my mom called and wanted to know the dates of Tyler’s upcoming soccer games so that she and my dad could plan a trip from Ohio to watch him play. This was their first time seeing one of Tyler’s games and Tyler was beside himself with excitement.
We decided to take full advantage of our get together and celebrate Mother’s Day, Father’s Day and Toby’s birthday all at once.
Tyler spent the morning waiting on the driveway for them to pull in while the older 4 kids decorated the outdoor chalkboard with a welcome sign for Mimi and Pop pop.
When they arrived around 10:00am the kids took them on a tour of the house, eager to show off their rooms, and then we sat down to open gifts.
After we were done opening gifts we headed to lunch. We made plans to celebrate Mom, Dad and Toby at an Applebee’s lunch before we had to be at the soccer game. It was delicious!
Then it was on to the soccer game. Tyler was very excited to have extra cheerleaders on the sidelines. 🙂
It was so much fun sitting together and visiting while we watched Tyler play.
Tyler played a great game, scoring a few goals and helping his team win their final game of the season. It was an amazing season for their team, as they ended their season undefeated.
But the biggest growth we saw in Tyler this season was character growth. He has been born with natural athletic ability…that was always there. The transformation we saw this season was a different sort of transformation. Thanks in large part to his coaches (and I believe the key being a female coach for a change) we saw Tyler become a better team player. We watched as he developed better communication skills, more awareness of the other players, self-control and maturity that we hadn’t seen up till this point.
A lot of this is a result of soccer and some of it is just the natural progression of a hurt child becoming more comfortable, feeling more safe, and learning to trust.
He came to us with a hard exterior, rarely smiling, physically strong and aggressive, and very self focused. He had learned in his early years that he couldn’t trust others so he became a tough little boy who would take care of himself. We have watched the wall he built slowly crumble over the last two years and a softer version of our little boy is emerging.
A metamorphosis has occurred.
And joy now shines forth.
After the game we came back to the house for cupcakes and some outdoor fun.
The kids brought out some of the newest members of our furry menagerie for Mimi and Pop pop to meet. 🙂
It was a special Saturday at Patchwork Farm.
I went to bed that night feeling overwhelmed by the abundance of blessings God had given me.
I fell asleep feeling so grateful…
Grateful for healthy, happy, loving, generous parents, who live close enough for special day visits like this one.
Grateful for God’s power to heal hurt hearts and broken spirits.
Grateful for the growth I get to watch in EACH of my children as I begin to catch glimpses of the people they will become.
Grateful for the best husband in the whole world. A man with a strong character and a soft heart who has opened his home to the orphan, and opened his heart to those who hurt.
Grateful to raise my little brood at Patchwork Farm…
A magical place indeed.