We find our summer flying by at a breakneck speed. It seems like just yesterday was Molly’s graduation, but the calendar says otherwise. Six weeks have passed since that monumental day and we are now halfway through summer and eight weeks away from Molly’s departure to Idaho for college. I find myself wanting to pump the breaks and slow down time. Since that is an impossibility, I find myself trying to steal moments of stillness whenever I can, soaking up the last of this season of “normalcy” before life changes once again and we find ourselves down two daughters: one to college and another to marriage.
This last week I was able to capture a day of memories to file away for future reflection when we escaped to the Homestead for a day of celebrations.
My Aunt Denise was in town for the month, following my grandma’s 90th birthday celebration. Since Aunt Denise lives so far away, and getting to visit with her is a rare and treasured treat, we decided to squeeze in a visit before she had to head home. My parents invited us over for a Sunday dinner and a celebration of all the big events from the past two months.
Every few months we try to carve out an afternoon for Sunday dinner at the Homestead, and while there we celebrate all the big events of that quarter of the year. This visit we found ourselves celebrating Toby’s birthday, Father’s Day and Molly’s graduation, with Molly’s graduation being the focus of the day.
We arrived, after a 2 1/2 hour drive, to find the barn decorated and ready for the party.
Zach joined us, as he will soon be an official member of the family…
97 days till they say “I do!”
We enjoyed a yummy picnic lunch in the barn.
It was warm, but the open doors provided a breeze, helped along by a couple box fans.
When Lunch was over, Molly was presented with her graduation gift from Mimi and Pop pop. Following tradition, they presented Molly with a hope chest. It was a beautiful Lane chest from the 1940’s. It is to be used by Molly to start collecting goodies for her future home. It was a beautiful gift with a beautiful purpose.
Inside the hope chest they included Molly’s bag of letters.
When my children were very small my mom came up with the idea of having a letter bag for each of her grandchildren. As the kids drew her pictures or sent her letters through the years, she would collect them in their letter bag. At graduation, they give the bag of letters back to that child to read through and enjoy.
Molly, being the resident letter writer in the family, had a full bag of sent mail to look through and enjoy.
What a delightful trip down memory lane it was, as we enjoyed her earliest years of artwork and phonetic spelling.
After we exchanged gifts for all the loved ones we were celebrating, the remainder of the day was spent enjoying the magic of the Homestead with it green vistas, grazing animals, and peace.
The kids had fun driving around the golf cart that was recently purchased to help G.G. move around the farm,
And we all enjoyed playing games as a family.
Life doesn’t allow us the time we’d like to visit family. Often it is months or even years between our visits, but when we are granted the rare gift of an afternoon together, we fill it with a month’s worth of fun!
Here’s to the stolen moments of life that make life worth living!