How is it that little miss sunshine is in the final stretch of her teenage years?!
It doesn’t seem possible.
On Sunday, April 7th, Molly turned 19, and we celebrated her at home with fun plans for the day.
In our home Sundays are spent worshipping at church and bonding as a family at home. We believe the Sabbath is best spent with family and desire to extend that same courtesy to others, so for that reason we choose to not shop or participate in activities that require other people to have to work and be away from their family on Sundays.
This is a principle we hold sacred as we choose to honor the Sabbath Day as a day set apart from the rest of the week.
When a family member’s birthday falls on a Sunday, it means we create fun at home rather than eating out or choosing a fun family activity that costs money. This always makes me feel like I need to up my birthday game to make sure the child feels loved despite a quiet birthday celebration at home.
This year Molly’s birthday not only fell on a Sunday, but on General Conference Sunday. General Conference occurs twice a year in our church. It is when members worldwide tune in via TV or computer to hear from our church leaders who share guidance, direction and revelation to the members that are relevant to today. General Conference weekends are my favorite Sabbaths of the year and this year it fell on Molly’s birthday. This meant we had a full day at home as a family…what a gift!
Our day began with the rarest of gifts: sleeping past 6:00am. Oh, it was delightful to sleep until my eyes opened on their own, rather than forcing them open under protest. We warned Molly ahead of time to expect her birthday morning wake-up later than usual, and as a 19-year-old girl she offered up no complaints to that plan!
It was closer to 9:00am when our family poured into her room singing her birthday song. First she made a secret wish, and then she blew out her cupcake candle, and her birthday had officially begun.
We began the day with the big reveal of the decorated dining room. This momma LOVES a good theme (to which Toby always sarcastically inquires, “And “Happy Birthday” isn’t a good enough theme?”) Nope! This is my favorite part of my kids’ birthdays and they have learned that the theme of the decorations in the dining room quite often provide a hint to their gift from mom and dad.
Molly entered the dining room to discover a Newsies theme playing out on the table. Newsies is Molly’s favorite musical so with that in mind, I ran with that theme and had a blast!
Then it was present time. No one wanted to wait any longer for Molly to open their gifts, and Molly didn’t really want to wait either, so the first task on the birthday agenda was gift opening.
We started with the youngest and ended with mom and dad.
Everyone had Molly’s impending adventure on their minds and purchased gifts for “College-bound Molly.”
Tyler bought her a giant coloring poster that he thought she could hang on the wall of the home she will be sharing with 8 other girls. His thought was that they could color together.
Ozzie purchased a light-up marque for her dorm room desk.
Rusty bought her a blow-up ottoman for her room with a cute cloth cover.
Braden decided he wanted to buy her a crock pot after hearing her talk about how helpful one would be as a college student.
Grace, following the example of the gift she received from Aunt Krista on her 19th birthday, made Molloy a college survival kit that was filled with all the products she has found most essential as a college student. It was very cute and clever!
And then came her gift from Mom and Dad…
Tickets to watch the musical Newsies in Pittsburgh.
With the tickets came a Newsies t-shirt to wear to the show.
Gift opening was followed by a breakfast of crepes, and then we prepared for the first session of General Conference.
Everyone claimed their spot in the living room, got comfy, and I handed out the goodies I prepared for General Conference.
To make Conference more engaging and to help everyone pay attention I prepared a few games to play as we watched, including General Conference Bingo with a basket of prizes from Dollar Tree.
In between the morning and afternoon session of General Conference, we had Molly’s birthday dinner. She picked the menu, requesting spaghetti pizza, salad, garlic bread and cheesecake in lieu of traditional birthday cake.
The day was spent enjoying family, soaking up the spirit of General Conference and celebrating Miss Molly.
She truly is the sunshine in our lives!!